A few months ago, a friend of mine who lives in New York received a book at her baby shower, Urban Babies Wear Black. It is a picture book of the supposedly typical activities and sights that an urban baby will see and experience: practicing yoga, visiting the museum, and, moving around the city in various forms of transportation.
I was reminded of this book a few days ago when a friend in Austin mentioned that he and his wife would likely have to buy a second car now that they are expecting their first child. They have not needed it until now; because, living in Central Austin and both working downtown, they have been able to move around by walking, carpooling, riding the bus, and using supplementary forms of transportation such as Car2Go. But, now that they will have an additional passenger to transport, they are worried that it will be too difficult to continue navigating the city in anything other than a car.
Their dilemma highlights the time-penalty of parenting in suburban cities. Parents spend a disproportionate amount of time driving their children from home to school, school to soccer practice, soccer practice to piano practice, piano practice to a friend’s house, and then, finally, home. The logistics and sheer amount of time involved in planning a multi-step trip using the Austin bus system Cap Metro can be overwhelming – if you can reach your destination in the first place.
- In my experience, Google Maps’ Public Transit option does not work as well in Austin as in other cities such as Boston and Washington, DC where a live-feed showing current bus locations is available both online and at many bus stops.
- Car2Go, the car sharing program allowing one-way trips that I praised in my previous blog post, may not be an option for adults traveling with very small children, because Smart Cars are two-seater cars. It is therefore not surprising that during the month I have used the bus in Austin, I have seen only two small children on it.
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If you are in the same situation as my friend – thinking about starting a family but not sure how to retain your freedom of movement in a city that does not easily accommodate any form of transportation other than the car – see below for four ideas on how to continue leading a mostly multimodal lifestyle with small children in a city like Austin.
- Identify 3-5 services and amenities that need to be located within a 10-minute walking or cycling distance of your home in order to free you from dependence on the car. Examples include: a daycare, an elementary school, a playground and/or park, a grocery store, the pediatrician’s office, etc. Work with an urban realtor to identify neighborhoods that meet these criteria.
- When traveling with your child on the bus, prioritize destinations that do not require a transfer. Similar to air travel, the act of transferring from one bus to another with small children can be almost more of a hassle than it is worth.
- Once your kids are old enough, consider purchasing a tandem bicycle or adding an extension to your commuter bicycle, so that you can safely cycle to nearby destinations as a family.
- When your kids start school, work with the school administration and the PTA to launch a Safe Routes to School Program to designate safe ways for students to walk or cycle to and from school. Once a route is identified, consider joining with other families in the neighborhood to organize a walking or cycling school bus to and from school.
Please offer additional suggestions in the comments box.